06/06/02

We're a society that demands safety, no matter how uncertain life is. We can do everything experts advise-- and yet bad things can happen. We take a risk every time we get in a car, and every time we leave our children with others, even family members.

About 100 cases of child sexual abuse are reported in Charlottesville each year, estimates Detective Garlin Mills, who's in charge of investigating sex crimes in the city. The majority of the cases are unfounded, and very few involve daycare providers.

"Most of the time, it's family members," says Mills, adding that the stereotype of the stranger in the bushes waiting to abduct a child is misleading. "Usually it's someone you know."

Sue Houchens is in charge of daycare and funding for Charlottesville's Department of Social Services, a program that makes payments for childcare for those trying to get off welfare. She advises parents not to choose daycare just because it's convenient or cheap.

One important indicator is how many kids are kept at the house. The 12-child limit for a licensed provider is set for a reason.

"If there are 20 kids there, ask questions," Houchens suggests.

Other adults hanging around are something to be wary of, says Houchens. A weapon lying around is definitely not a good sign.

"And if a provider doesn't want you to drop by, that's a red light," says Houchens.

Children, Youth and Family Services and the Department of Social Services provide brochures and advice on choosing quality childcare. And who's to say a licensed provider ultimately will be any better-­ or worse-­ than grandparents or a neighbor?

"Abuse or neglect can happen in any home," says Houchens.

And like any other parent, she admits, "I'm scared to send my two girls over to other people's houses without knowing them." --Lisa Provence

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